Im out of the habit of writing- to everyone. Its not that I don't have time (we always find time for the things we really want to do) and its not that Im so used to everything here now that I have nothing to write and opinionate about. No- not at all. Its that...well, Im not a tourist, just observing any more- Im 'in' it. I think ive been here long enough now to realise that so many things don't have easy explanations...and the tragedies and celebrations happening around me are happening to people I know and care about and it affects me deeply. I find it hard to write about things that matter to my heart. But i also want to share what life is here with you...so im going to do a 'week in the life of me' which'll give you a snapshot and hopefully get me back in the habit :)
SO
Today is the first day of Ramadan, which, in this part of the world has meant an over night swap from the excesses, drumming and wild parties of the Unyago initiation celebrations to pious fasting as outlined by the Quran. Food and drink and sex are banned during daylight hours for the next month. "Fasting is a shield," said the noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) "Whoever spends the month of Ramadan in complete faith and self-rectification, his previous sins will be forgiven."
I've only ever experienced Ramadan and Idul Fitri in Indonesia, so Im not sure what to expect here. In Indonesia I was living with a devout host family. In Indonesia I fasted- but this morning I ate my brekky with thanksgiving and filled several large water bottles in case the farm workers weren't feeling so devout after several hours digging in the hot sun. Then after fuelling up the car I popped into the office for a few minutes to touch base and let the boss know where I was for the day- then off to the farm. Not quite direct though- some friends of mine- an expat couple with a young daughter were moving house up to a town near the farm today, so I stopped by their place, picked up the mother, daughter and a car load of boxes and delivered them to their new place...then I went to the farm.
When I arrived around 10am, the farm manger was lying in the shade and workers had just about finished for the day. They had no qualms slugging back the water. They've progressed really well on the drains distance-wise, but not quite according to design, so I chatted to the farm manager about that for a while and he nodded in agreeance. Im a bit worried cos he has a massive boil on the back of his neck that he's had for 3 days. It looks/is super painful but he was adament about trapesing all over the farm with me to get the last few GPS co-ordinates I need for the map...for the Farm Plan...for the funding proposal etc. "Its my jobo' he said with a grin. It was hot work- the season has definitely changed- its hard to believe a few weeks ago I was wearing a jacket and stockings under my skirt for warmth!
I dropped him home just before 12 and headed to the only resteraunt in the area. Are they serving food? yes- rice and chicken please. A colleague saw my car and came over for a chat. Apparently at the last meeting when the boss had promised the farmer training would happen in September, my colleague had retorted 'this year or next?!'. hehe I guess locals DO feel the same frustration at delayed timelines and empty promises. The training faciltiy is 5 weeks overdue. We're meant to be training 300 farmers in compost manure making and contour ridging- but we have no roof. sigh
After lunch I went to my friends house and played with their daughter and eventually got her to sleep while they unpacked and got on with moving in. Boxes and chaos today, comfortable home tomorrow! I left there around 4 pm and headed down the mountain. Its about a 45 min drive home down a pretty steep, windy road in places. The police pulled me over and wanted a lift to the next town. sure. I think the one in the front seat was trying to see my speedo- but he wasn't wearing his seatbelt so I felt safe with ammo :)
At the next police stop, near Mangochi, the policeman seemed to be just on the verge of asking for a lift when my friend from the village appeared and butted the police man out of the conversation! She attends Islamic school so had her black smock and headscarf on today. I spied 2 other women from the village with their babies behind her so I told her to hop in and informed the policeman I would be turning around now. Their village is only 12 km away- but thats a LONG way when you're lugging a kid on your back- whether you've eaten that day or not! They told me they'd been getting immunisation shots for their kids and visiting another friend from the village who had a baby in hospital today. a little boy, safe and sound. yay! Back at the village I greeted everyone, held a baby etc then headed off. so tired. Unloading my car at home I discovered that one of the kids had peed in the car :-z
got home around 5.30pm, hopped straight in the shower and my house mate cooked pasta for dinner while I finalised my receipts and cash records for August (yawn) then I cooked a cake for desert cos we've got lots of mushy bananas that need using today. cake was good :)
now- its 9.20 and im looking forward to bed! g'nite